There have been to many missing children in America and when I say to many I mean even 1 missing child is to many, that 9 out of 10 times it's always a parent of family member behind it. When I see on the news of a child missing, I automatically think, yep one of the parents or a family member did it. People tell me don't be so quick to accuse. Well for one it really doesn't matter who I accuse because what I say is not going to determines anyones fate and hell the majority of missing children is family related! As a mother, it sickens me to the core when a child goes missing (regardless who did it). Everyone has the same question, how could someone do anything horrible to a child? Honestly I don't think we will ever know. Last winter, a woman through her 2 month old child into a ditch filled with snow to take off after her bf whom she had been arguing with. By the grace of God, someone saw this act and picked up the child and by miracle the baby was ok because all the snow cushioned some of the impact of the fall. I could go on and on about all the things I read on cafemom blogs but I would only be working myself up into a huge ball of anger. To end this, people make me sick.
On another note, there are more good people in this world than bad ones. I have been doing some parent/family blog searching to connect with other mommas or dads. There is absolutely no one around me to talk to about parenting without critizing or thinking they are better than you. Yes yes I know you have more experiance as a mother but you can give me advice and suggestions. Not point everything you don't like that I do or make me look like bad mother, which I know by far that I am not. This is why I started to blog!
One particular advice I have gotten about how to help relieve Annas teething pain is dip my finger in whiskey and rub it on her gums. I just can not bring myself to do this. Soooo many people tell me oh I did that with my child, well don't get mad at me if I don't want to do this. Ok so you did it for your kids, that was YOUR decision and I am not judging. There are so many things I am going to do different than what I saw other parents do to their children as I was growing up. All my life since I was little I was brought up around babies ( I am the only child) but someone was always popping out a baby. But back then when I was younger, almost every parent raised their children and disciplined their children the same way. For me, as a mother now, I see it best to do things differently. Some examples, to teach a child to stop biting their parents would bite them back (hard). No sorry I do not believe in this. If a child was potty training and they wet their pants, they would get a spanking, I will NOT do this to Anna. It's stupid! Any little mistake would end with a spanking. Now I do believe in spankings but come on, for spilling a glass of milk? No. Many parents do not believe in spanking at all and I respect that, but I have different beliefs.
So my night is soon coming to a end. I think I may go search for more parent/family blogs. If you would like please follow! Would love to keep connected to other bloggers!
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